There have been leftovers of the free love generation who have managed to survive and the great thing is that in recent times there has been a sexual revival of sorts in America. A good example of this is that in the past 5 years or more, America has witnessed a baby boom, women once more want to be pregnant and have babies. This time though people are a tad wiser and mindful in their approach to sexual exploration. This has also meant that the once struggling sex toys industry is now able to breathe a sigh of relief. Even the most adamant people who refused to use such products as a means to derive extra sexual pleasure are not turning towards sex toys and no longer believe that adult toys are a social taboo. Yet there will always remain some people who will think that adult sex toys are not a good thing to use.
The reason for neglecting or brushing aside sex toys like a vibrator is mainly because of a misunderstanding about the uses and ramifications of such products. They would think that sex enhancement products simply undermine their self confidence of being able to satisfy their opposite sex in bed. While some others are of the view that adult toys are limited to extreme versions of fetishism. Well it would not be an understatement to say that both these conclusions are from the truth.
As we just mentioned earlier in the article that people from every walk of life are accepting the use of adult sex toys is not bad and therefore manufacturers are coming up with a wide range of products to suit the needs and wishes of consumers. Surely there are many products that experienced people can use but there are also quite a few products that cater to the needs of a novice user.
Major sex toy industry players are well aware of the fact that consumers want to keep their toys discrete. Therefore manufactures do design a number of products keeping this in mind. Today the vibrator is designed to look similar to a lipstick container plus lubes are described using terms such as ‘relaxation’ instead of using any explicit sexual terminology. Adult toys are not designed in a discrete manner so that when purchasing one the consumer feels as comfortable as when they are buying chocolates.
Now that your fears regarding buying and using sex toys has been addressed let us move to the question of the effect such products can have on an existing relationship. Till not a couple of decades ago the use of sex toys showed the person in poor light and it was suggested as an act of fetishism. In recent times though adult toys have entered the bedrooms of millions of couples looking to find that extra bit of pleasure in their sex life. Such toys are certainly a great way to explore hidden and never before tapped erotic relationship between two people. Surely sex toys will not lead to a division between couples, and are often a source that brings about new and exciting romantic situations.
Today many couples use adult toys and games for sexual stimulation and also for sexual satisfaction. Technology has advanced today and its use in making sex toys and games has made them more interesting and effective. These toys and games are available in the market whereas games can be played on internet too.
Medically a good quality sex toy for personal use does not cause any harm to health if the user is an adult. Make sure that the material used for making such a toy is acceptable to your delicate organs, it should be tested before use for allergies and irritations. Doctors treat use of sex toys and games as advanced form of masturbation and we all know that masturbation has been a part of human sexual behavior since times immemorial. Today’s busy life routine causes severe absence of proper lovemaking activities between couples due to lack of time which sometimes leads to behavioral disturbances in a partner or in both the partners. Sexual games and toys can help in a better way than masturbation to satisfy sexual desire and eagerness to an extent and helps a male or a female in controlling her emotional state.
People suffering with lack of desire and interest in lovemaking also find sex toys and games helpful in resolving this situation. Compared to other medications use of games for sexual stimulation or arousal is much cheap and easy. Woman suffering with vaginal dryness face quite severe pain during penetration and later, use of sex toys with lubrication many times cures this dryness by arousing her feelings for sex. These toys also help in spicing up the activity and can make the sexual act more pleasurable. Males facing problems of ED or PE can also use these adult toys to satisfy their partner as they are unable to hold stiffness in their genitals for sufficient duration which may leave their partner unsatisfied. Use of toys not only helps them in keeping their love life full of fun but also give them time and exposure to gain control over their problems related to over or under excitement.
Not to mention these sex toys and games shall be kept out of reach of young children as an immature mind cannot understand its proper use. Some precautions are necessary while using sex toys or adult toys. These toys shall be kept strictly for personal use and no one else should be allowed to use them to avoid STDs and other infections. Virus, bacteria and yeast responsible for various kinds of sexual infections and diseases can be transmitted by contaminated sex toys. Even if these toys are used personally their cleanliness is very important and it is better to use them by putting a condom on them. Toys used for anal penetration shall not be used for vaginal penetration as it may cause infection to the vagina. Use of separate condoms for anal and vaginal penetration is a safer way of enjoying sex with adult toys.
They’re calling it “Toy Story for Adults”, and it’s easy to see why. Today Adult toys, lingerie and other adult products are holding their own as major players on the market. This growing popularity has led an increasing percentage of the population to celebrate the biggest moments in their lives with an adult toy part.
Discover new ways to spice up your love life
What is an adult toy party? The name is usually a pretty good tip off for most people. It’s a chance for adults to get together and “toy shop”, but these aren’t Cabbage Patch dolls or Power Rangers-although “Woody” might be an appropriate addition to the evening! These parties feature toys and games that most parents would never dream of letting their little girls play with, featuring today’s hottest line-up of adult toys and accessories.
More importantly, it gives women of all ages the opportunity to get together and discuss not only their personal lives, but also the ways they’d like to improve their relationships. Imagine the possibilities! Most toy parties are privately hosted, and the ten to twelve women who usually get together to celebrate these events are often close friends. That means that there can be a no-holds barred, completely straightforward conversation on relationships.
Host your own adult party and receive free samples
If you’re looking for a way to jazz up your personal relationships, or even just to make your man’s eyes pop out of his head a little faster when you walk in the room, an adult toy party is the way to do it. Not only do you often walk away with free samples (especially if you happen to be the host), you also have first dibs on some of the hottest adult toys on the market-complete with demos.
The demos ensure that not only do you spend the night looking at amazing adult toys, you also get to learn how to use them-and how to get your man worked up enough that you’re going to be reaping the benefits for months afterward. Most of these parties claim that they’ll teach you tricks and techniques you’ve never heard of, and unless you happen to have memorized the Kama Sutra they’re probably right. When you walk away from an adult party you’ll be leaving with the knowledge that with a little less talk and a lot more action you can have your man on his knees in no time.
An adult party is an excellent way to breathe new life into your personal relationships, connect with your girlfriends and step out of your shell to discover everything that the world has to offer.
On the surface of it, Fleshlight adult toys seem pretty simple – an extension of your hand that feels a little more like realistic sex, but not quite as big, bulky and hard to hide as a blow-up doll! However, there’s a wealth of new discoveries to be made inside those little tubes of specially formulated silicone… if you’ve recently purchased a Fleshlight adult toy or are thinking about it, here’s everything you’ll need to know about the Fleshlight.
Buying a Fleshlight Adult Toy
Many handheld pussy/anal sex simulators are called Fleshlights, although ‘Fleshlight’ is actually a particular brand. If you’re looking to buy one of these toys, have a browse through the men’s adult toy section generally, don’t just search by the name.
Look for toys made of Cyberskin or ‘realistic feel’ silicone – there is an amazing difference between these and standard old silicone!
You’ll also notice that some are made in a flashlight style, while others have a flat base to help you ‘mount’ the toy to a surface for hands-free operation (“Hey look, no hands!”). The mountable ones can cost a little more, but you can get the same effect from a handheld one by jamming it between your mattress and base, or between two couch cushions.
Prepping and Using Your Fleshlight Adult Toy
The proper prep can make a big different to how your Fleshlight adult toy feels. Here’s the usual MO:
Fill the sink full of warm-hot water
Remove the insert from the casing and sit it in the sink for 5 minutes
Repeat if you like, or for thicker inserts
DON’T use the microwave or boiling water
Pop some wipes nearby to help with the cleanup – you’ll want to get the lube off your hands to get a good grip on your adult toy
Slather the inside with water-based lube only; silicone-based lube will react with the adult toy and melt it.
Once you’re ready to go, try some different ideas like:
Using it as an extension of your hand as you’d normally masturbate
Jamming the Fleshlight between your mattress and the bed base for doggie-style simulation
Alternatively, push it down between your couch cushions to hold it in place.
Popping your adult toy into a shoe for unusual angles
Simply hold it on a countertop or the side of a couch
This takes a while – however, it is essential that this type of toy is cleaned properly, because the closed environment, warmth and wetness make an ideal bacterial breeding ground.
Run warm water through the Fleshlight after use, and use a cloth and your fingers to do the initial clean. After this, use some specially designed adult toy cleaner and sanitiser to leave your Fleshlight ready for it’s next adventure.
Fleshlight Stamina Training Units
These adult toys are apparently (!) designed to help guys last longer in bed. When I first heard this, I imagined a device that somehow sensed when ejaculation was going to occur and projected an imagine of Roseanne Barr naked onto the nearest wall… but sadly, this isn’t the case!
The base idea of the Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit is to simulate the feeling of a real lady’s love tunnel as closely as possible, so that you are eventually desensitised to the experience.
Does it work? Customers certainly say so! Some of the most enthusiastic adult toy reviews you’ll ever read have been written about the Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit. For example:
“I did not expect much but was surprised big time. The Stamina Training Unit does indeed feel good. Actually it did feel too good for me. I came just entering the thing. I was both shocked and amazed.”
“This thing is the most awesome masturbator in the world, I say its as good or better than a real pussy! By working slowly with it (training) it does help holding out longer… This thing is up there with the lightbulb as far as incredible inventions!”
“And it does seem to work. I’m able to recognize the signs of impending orgasm much better, and I’m able to last a few cycles more already. Exciting news, and something that did not go unnoticed by her!”
Fleshlights and handheld pussies in general are a fantastic addition to the world of adult toys, and much more involved than they seem at first glance!